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Have You Ever Thought, “I’m Done Being Nice”?
One thing I started noticing was the greetings. For the last few years, I'd make a point of saying good morning to the receptionist and the admin ladies every morning. Sometimes they'd answer, sometimes they wouldn't. Like sometimes I exist, sometimes I don't...
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Why The Banshees of Inisherin Feels Emotionally True Despite Its Absurdity
Padraic wants emotional continuity. Colm wants emotional escape. Neither of them really knows how to navigate that difference without causing damage. That feels more realistic than the literal plot...
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Some Friendships End the Moment Fake Peace Surfaces
I still think the worst part wasn’t the accusation itself - People misunderstand each other. Apps glitch. I can accept that. What stayed with me was the feeling that my explanation didn’t really matter once the suspicion had settled into place...
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Why Being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) Isn’t a Superpower – And Not a Curse Either
I think discovering the term HSP didn’t change who I am. It just helped me stop fighting it so much. I still get annoyed at small things. I still overthink certain interactions. And honestly… sometimes I still wonder if I’m just being too much...
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Why Being Kind Doesn’t Make Life Easier (And Why It’s Still Worth It)
We like to imagine integrity as something noble and rewarding. In reality, it often feels socially inconvenient. Especially in workplaces. People stopped giving quiet warnings before work problems escalated...
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The Thirty-Minute Buffer: How Email Scheduling Helped Me Reclaim My Peace
If I schedule a reply for tomorrow and nobody follows up, it quietly reveals something: the task was never urgent in the first place. Workplace urgency is often theatre. Scheduling emails is simply drawing boundaries...
